To lead effectively—whether in coaching, teaching, or any team environment—clear guidelines and thoughtful suggestions are essential.
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In an interview with Marv Dunphy for his thesis John Robert Wooden: The Coaching Process, legendary UCLA coach John Wooden described the evolution of his philosophy: "In my early years of coaching, I had a lot of rules and some suggestions. In my last years of coaching, I had many suggestions and few rules."
By the end, Wooden distilled his practice rules to just three: Be on time, no profanity, and never criticize a teammate. He shared these suggestions with his teams, emphasizing: Our chances of having a successful team can be directly proportional to each player's ability to adhere to the following sets of suggestions.
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The player who gives his best is sure to succeed, while the player who gives less than his best is a failure.
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Wooden encouraged his players to live these 20 behaviors. By framing them as suggestions rather than strict rules—with an opening appeal to the shared goal of a high-performance team—he inspired genuine buy-in, not fear-driven compliance.
Teams led by intimidation may comply short-term but falter under pressure. Those inspired by reason and purpose deliver consistent excellence, especially when it counts.
A strict disciplinarian, Wooden viewed discipline as a tool to teach, not punish. As he often said: You can't upset and influence at the same time.
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