In 2009, on her 30th birthday, Marjorie Llombart's life took a pivotal turn. As a photographers' agent and photo producer, she had felt stuck for five years, frustrated by stagnant growth and limited opportunities. After a month of deep reflection, one realization hit home: to truly live, she needed to embrace change.
She turned to a retraining coach, who reinforced a vital truth we often overlook: it is possible to uncover your passion later in life and build a sustainable career from it.
Marjorie left her job on amicable terms, completed a Master's degree in Human Sciences—with congratulations from the jury—and by 2012, emerged as a thriving career transition specialist. Today, she serves numerous clients while her blog, Draw Me a Career, inspires thousands.
Message on the wall by Draw Me a Career / Retraining for women.
I discovered her insightful site through a fellow blogger and scheduled a Skype interview. Here are her expert lessons:
Marjorie Llombart: I initially coached both men and women, though women were the majority. But I soon recognized women's unique challenges. For instance, many struggle to articulate their professional aspirations. My role is to guide them back to their authentic selves, uncovering what truly excites them beyond societal expectations.
Women in transition consistently seek meaningful work. That's my passion: helping them reveal their inner potential.
First, distinguish dissatisfaction from readiness to change. Key signs include daily boredom with fewer moments of job satisfaction, chronic fatigue—like a knot in your stomach Sunday nights—or issues with management and colleagues. Ultimately, a profound loss of purpose: "What's the point of all this?"
If several resonate, it's time for action.
Not always—sometimes small tweaks suffice. A toxic environment might be the issue; thriving in the same role at a smaller company can restore balance.
For others, major shifts like a gap year or world trip are needed—but ensure it's growth, not escape, to avoid circling back.
Professional coaching is ideal for blind spots, but start solo: What activities light you up? What hobbies consume your free time? Daily joys?
These aren't always job-related. "I excel at organizing trips with friends—that organizational talent could transfer professionally."
Inventory skills next, align interests with professional strengths, and connect the dots.
Absolutely. Outdated models linger, questioning women's need to work or earn. Even with advanced degrees, you'll hear, "You're crazy! You have a job in this economy!" It's their fears projected onto you.
That's why solo change is hard. I learned this firsthand—my own transition required coaching to separate fantasy from reality and dismantle limiting beliefs. I still work with a coach.
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Exactly. It's a months-long journey reshaping beliefs and patterns, often involving training or funding. I commit clients for at least three months for real results.
Coaching doesn't provide answers—I guide reflection, provide motivation, and ground in reality. We map steps for autonomy. For a naturopathy aspirant, I'd say: "Great fit for your values. Interview three naturopaths with targeted questions we prepare together."
Hands-on reality checks solidify decisions—the first major step forward.
Essential! Clients ride emotional waves: initial excitement with apprehension, then doubt ("I'll never make it!"), demanding perseverance. Breakthrough brings joy and pride.
Discouragement signals realism—a positive sign. Trials pale against the fulfillment of aligning with your true path, fueling endless energy.
I'm dedicated to empowering women to fully develop. Deep down, we know our fit—even if unconventional. Following your path leads to success.
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