As a working mother with a partner, I often wonder how single moms juggle it all—financial independence, career demands, and family life. Saskia, a dedicated single working mother, shares her authentic story based on real experience.
Hi, I'm Saskia Pentecost, a project manager at Graphic DM Marketing. I oversee projects from inception to completion, handling purchasing, on-site machine visits, and production checks for color and quality—sometimes traveling to ensure everything meets our high standards.
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My career is vital to me—not just for the financial independence it provides as a single mom, but because I've built a strong professional network that has enriched my life in countless ways.
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Thankfully, I truly love my job. It energizes me and keeps me fulfilled.
My alarm sounds at 6:45 a.m.—a quick snooze, then up I go. I wake my little man, Lars, and we handle our morning routine: washing up, getting dressed, and heading downstairs. Lars has his Brinta cereal while I sip coffee and switch on the TV.
After breakfast, we brush our teeth together and head out by 7:30 a.m. to drop him at nursery. Then it's straight to Amsterdam for my workday, which ends at 5:00 p.m. I rush home, pick up Lars just before 6:00 p.m., and we're back by 6:15 p.m.
I cook fresh meals most nights (or use freezer leftovers when needed). Post-dinner, it's playtime, followed by a shower every other day. Bedtime includes storytime and a chat, then I tidy up and unwind on the couch for an hour before lights out.
Yes, the hustle tires me out, but my job recharges me. It highlights my best qualities, surrounded by great colleagues, clients, and suppliers.
I'm off Mondays, giving us three full days together weekly. Saturdays are lazy mornings in bed with snacks, TV, and cuddles. Sundays might mean swimming, visiting family, or fun outings. Mondays are for errands and planning, with my ex visiting every other week. Rarely, for a night out, Lars stays with grandparents or my brother.
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Our weekday routine is structured and efficient, getting us out the door quickly—it works seamlessly for us.
I occasionally feel guilty for working four days with less weekday time, but pride outweighs it. I've created financial stability at home and a loving, consistent foundation for Lars—all on my own.
Not right now—I'm content with our life. A partner to share the load would be nice sometimes, but Lars and I thrive. No jealousy toward other moms; everyone's path is unique.
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