As we step into 2017, it's time to reflect on the past year and set meaningful intentions for the one ahead. New year, new chances—not just for me, but for many of us. As a mom of three young kids, I've curated my top 10 resolutions, drawn from real-life lessons. Do any resonate with you? Share your list below!
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Looking back at 2016, my guiding principle was 'let it go'—in every sense. Perfection isn't the goal for anyone. With three young children, my home is rarely spotless, and that's okay. My work doesn't always go perfectly, leading to frustration from setting expectations too high. I often aim for too much with limited time. Learning to release control has been key. Letting go with the kids is tough, but I'm getting better at ignoring others' opinions and focusing energy on those who uplift me. Plenty to build on in 2017!
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While we can't control everything, these are the changes I'll prioritize based on my experience as a busy mom:
Here's the reasoning behind my top 10 New Year's resolutions:
One resolution I'm committing to: more 'no's.' With only 24 hours in a day, saying yes to everything leads to burnout and stress. Saying no means someone else steps up, allowing me to deliver quality instead of mediocrity. With my kids, I'll explain boundaries clearly and hold firm.
Not just quantity, but quality: crafting, playing games, outings, and one-on-one moments. Kids crave your time now—cherish it before they grow independent.
Life's a whirlwind of chores, laundry, and endless tasks. I need dedicated time for myself: sauna visits, shopping, high tea, or curling up with a book. No interruptions!
The kids stick to routines, but as a night owl nearing 40 with three little ones, late nights wipe me out. Goal: lights out before 11 p.m.
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I'm improving at this, especially outside work or kids. I used to worry excessively, but letting go brings relaxation without laziness.
Young family life and careers strain relationships. Prioritizing monthly date nights with a babysitter—time away from routine and kids—is essential for us.
A common goal: shedding those last 5 kilos to reduce the post-baby belly and love handles. Steady progress ahead!
The classic mom trap: giving in to avoid battles. My kids spot it fast. Time for firm boundaries—no means no, respect matters. (Fingers crossed I stick to it!)
Not extreme, just sensible: more outdoor play, fruits, veggies, less sugar. Swap screens and sweets for active fun and healthy snacks.
Cleaning ranks low on my list amid daily kid messes. A orderly home calms my mind, though I've lowered standards from magazine-perfect to 'lived-in but tidy.' Consistency in upkeep is key, even with spills everywhere.
A solid top 10 to kick off 2017 strong. (Business goals like skill-building and networking are next!)
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