As a career coach with years of experience guiding professionals through job searches, I've seen how well-meaning comments can unintentionally demotivate. Job hunting is challenging enough—here are 10 phrases to skip for more supportive conversations.
- "Have you thought about redoing your CV?!"
No need—job seekers know the basics. This overlooks their smarts and efforts already in play. - "It's cool you have plenty of free time."
Unemployment isn't a vacation. It ignores the stress of financial pressures and daily uncertainty. - "I would be you, I would take the first job that comes along…"
You're not them, and jobs aren't that simple. Rushing into the wrong role can set back progress. - "Enjoy and don't worry!"
Job loss brings real worries like bills piling up. Lightheartedness misses the mark. - "You could give me an errand."
This implies indifference. True help means offering real opportunities, not odd jobs. - "If you don't find them within two years, you're dead!"
Harsh timelines add panic. Job searches take time—encourage persistence instead. - "And why don't you open a restaurant?"
Suggesting unrelated ventures ignores skills and preparation needed for a pivot. - "Especially you know yourself well if you have an interview, huh!"
Sarcasm aside, preparation is key—but they likely already know to dress appropriately. - "Did you know that butchery is a recruiting sector?"
Forcing unrelated fields dismisses their expertise. Tailor advice to their background. - "Finding a job is above all a question of motivation…"
This blames the seeker, ignoring market realities. Motivation is there; support builds it.
Opt for empathy and practical tips to truly help.
